Picture of the Week #28 - 22/03/2015

A prisoner has escaped from their hospital bed and left a lovely present behind for the nurses. I don't watch Hawaii Five-Oh but maybe I should start if the cast are this attractive!

Picture of the Week #24 - 22/02/2015

The picture of the week is quite the vintage shot. I don't know where it originates from or even the year it occurred but from the general room decor it looks like it could stem back as far as the 1980s. It kinda blows my mind that people have been doing gay bondage porn for longer than I have been alive and there's something I find very magical about bondage in a time before the internet. I imagine this photo was hidden away on a shelf somewhere. A perfect gag it has to be said as well :)

Kevin Tickled - BondageJeopardy

So the owner of BondageJeopardy, who goes by the name of Kevin, posted this video on his Tumblr account showing him tied, gagged and tickled. Every one knows by now that I love a bear all bound and gagged, but what people may not know is that I have a tickle fetish too so this video checks a lot of boxes for me. Did I mention he's beautiful as hell? :)

I love the parts where his laughs turn into uncomfortable pleas. This is the kinda stuff I would want to do with a boyfriend. Any takers? :)

You can follow Kevin on his Tumblr page.

Where The Bears Are - Todd Gets Kidnapped - Part 2

Part two of this great scene starring Ian Parks as the lovely, furry Todd. This episode has far more gagged action which makes me very happy (even if the gag itself looks kinda cheap and flimsy!)

You have to love those terrified moans from Ian Parks. Definitely gives the scene far more realism and sex appeal. Squeal little piggy!

Where The Bears Are - Todd Gets Kidnapped - Part 1

A great moment from the comedy/gay porn series 'Where The Bears Are'. Feeling frustrated and rejected by the bear community, a deranged twink named Alfie has kidnapped the very sexy Todd (played by Ian Parks) and plans a twisted revenge. He has already killed three other bears with the help of his mentally insane sister and plans to make Todd the fourth.

Alfie laments how he could never be a hot bear like Todd and vents his frustrations that men like Todd would never give him a chance and so he's going to kill them all one by one. He tells Todd that he wants him to know what it's like to be disfigured so he can relate to him before he is killed and threatens to castrate him.

Will the other bears come to Todd's rescue in time? We'll have to find out in the later episodes. For now let's enjoy the sight of Todd bound, naked and explored! Ian Parks definitely knows what he's doing to us all!

If you want to buy the full DVDs for 'Where the Bears Are' you can do so via their official website: http://wherethebearsare.tv/

Gagged in Court

As part of Coptober here are some historic images of people being bound and gagged for their rowdy or violent behaviour in the court room. Evidently some of them don't seem to learn to quit when they're behind!

This one is actually from a movie but I can't remember the name of it.

Beyond Scared Straight - Extraction Scene

Here's a great extraction scene from the US reality TV show 'Beyond Scared Straight'. In this clip a rowdy, misbehaving inmate is stripped, bound to the extraction chair, gagged and spit masked before being wheeled away.

Since this is from a reality TV show I'm not sure whether this scene is real or fake (though my gut says fake). One thing for sure is that this scene is so hot. Any time those corrections officers don their extraction gear I get butterflies in my stomach. Plus being British I'm a sucker for that accent. If only they knew what those leather gloves are really for though ;). 

Picture of the Week #3 - 26/09/2014

Prince Charming waking 'Sleeping Captive'

Any one who's ever had a bondage session with me will know that I love a gagged kiss. It's always a huge turn on to see a captor passionately lock lips with his gagged captive when he can't do any thing but sit/lay back and enjoy it. It's also hot when two gagged captives try to make out with each other. Something about the helplessness of it all that creates that magic.

It's nice to know that the webmaster of capturedguys.com shares my passion for this. He could do that to me any day! ;)

Picture of the week #1: Steel Will and Milkyboy - Bearbound - 12/09/2014

The five stages of captivity: Anger, struggle, fear, acceptance and submission!

I think I'm gonna start sharing a random bondage picture every week ranging from some of my favourite classics, to what I've been enjoying on that given week. I'll start with this classic from BearBound featuring Steel Will and Milkyboy.

I always love a Mastergagger captive and he really out did himself with this photo set. In particular I really love this photo because, between the two captives, Mastergagger captured the range of emotions that a captive goes through with Steel Will showing anger and struggle on the left and Milkyboy showing submission, acceptance and a little bit of fear on the right. I also love the minimalist bondage which gives it a more realistic feel.

I don't know where Mastergagger found all these wonderful captives over the years but I think I speak for most of us when I say THANK YOU! Who doesn't love two very handsome bears, stripped to their underwear, bound and GAGGED :)

PS I should now have more free time so hopefully I can share some more of my deep thoughts with you guys soon!

Q & A with Matt (Gagfanatic)

Recently I got the opportunity to do a question and answer session with one of my favourite bondage guys: Matt (aka Gagfanatic on the internet). I've never really seen a bondage interview before but I thought this would be a fun thing to do and I was definitely not disappointed. Thanks Matt! :)

Oh hey there :)

KYMS: Hey handsome, how's things? Thank you for taking the time to answer some questions for my blog.

GF: Thank you for asking me.  I enjoy talking about my favourite hobby.  Ironically, you can't shut me up when I'm talking about gags.

'Yep on closer inspection you are definitely going nowhere!'

KYMS: Me either! So tell me how you first got into bondage? Can you remember the exact moment and how did it make you feel?

GF: I remember watching an old gangster movie on television when I was quite young and getting excited during a scene where a guy was tied up and gagged.  I wish I could find that movie.  I also remember always wanting to play cops and robbers or cowboys and Indians and tying my playmates up with my jump rope.

Young cowboy in the wrong place at the wrong time.

KYMS: I'd like to know what movie that was too! A lot of bondage lovers keep a scrap book or similar when they're growing up. Did you ever do this?

GF: I didn't have a scrapbook, but I did have my Hardy Boys books.  When we got a VCR I made a video scrapbook of bondage scenes from TV shows.

This swimmer would have been better off being caught by sharks :)

KYMS: Tell us about your first bondage experience. How was it set up?

GF: My first "real" bondage experience was with my first boyfriend in college.  We both had roommates, so we rented a hotel room for our first time having sex.  I had never mentioned the fact that I was into bondage before, but after we did the vanilla stuff I turned to him in bed and said, "Hey, can I tie you up?" He said yes, I tore up one of the bedsheets, and tied him spread-eagle to the bed.  I loved it, he loved it, but the hotel people probably didn't love the destroyed bed sheet.

My kinda hostage!

KYMS: I bet haha! You have been described as a 'bondage rockstar' in some corners due to your IML exploits. Do you agree with that description and how does it make you feel? How many guys have you tied up at IML if you were to guess?

GF: I feel very flattered by that description of course, especially since I know who originated the term, and he's a bona fide bondage rockstar.  Flattered as I am, I don't think of myself as a rock star because I don't love the limelight.  I've met guys before who are "famous" in the bondage community, and a lot of them had attitudes, and acted surprised/insulted if I didn't know who they were.

The predator has caught his prey.

Due to the fact that I'm a huge nerd, I don't have to guess how many guys I tied up at IML, I kept a list.  At the last IML I attended I tied up 16 guys in 31 sessions.  I only got about 12 hours of sleep the entire four-day weekend.

3 down...28 to go?

KYMS: Wow that's a lot! I'm jealous! Speaking of IML; tell us about these bondage parties that happen. How do you set these up?

GF: I only attended one actual party, at my first IML.  I was invited by a guy who wanted me to tie him and a friend of his at the party, and I ended up tying up a couple of other guys while I was there.  The most I've ever had in my room at one time is four guys.  It's more like a bondage dinner party, a small intimate gathering.  I think four guys is about all I can handle on my own.  I learned that the best way to set things up is to go with the flow, and not to expect things to go as planned.  Sometimes setting up meetings with guys falls through, not just at IML, but, in many cases, an even hotter bondage hookup happens instead.

Twinsies!

KYMS: One of the reasons I've always liked you is that you're a gag lover like me. What do you think is the perfect way to gag a guy?

GF: I really can't answer that.  It's like asking what's my favorite type of gag.  There are so many, I can't choose one.  I like every type of gag there is, and depending on what effect I want, I use different kinds.  My default gag is a layered gag of seven to eight bandannas, starting with a cleave-gag and progressively getting thicker until I finish off with an OTM gag or an OTN gag if the guy can handle it.  That's another consideration, what the sub can handle.  Some guys can take a few bandannas, some guys can take sweat socks in the mouth, 20 bandannas, half a roll of duct tape, and a yard-long piece of cloth to finish everything off.

Now that's a man's gag!

KYMS: Speaking of roles: You're a bondage top. A lot of guys seem to be subs or switches. At what point did you realise you liked to be the guy doing the tying up as opposed to the guy being tied up?

GF: Before I started tying guys up, I would always identify with the captor when I would read a story or watch something that had bondage.  As I mentioned before, the first real bondage I did was with my first boyfriend, and since I was the one who suggested it, it just seemed natural that I should be the one who did the tying.  That being said, I'm not a total bondage top.  There are times when I like to be tied and gagged, but since as you said a lot of guys are subs or switches (and most switches I've met are 99% sub) it made it difficult to find someone to tie me up.  Finding a guy who liked to tie guys up, who knew what he was doing, and who I could trust to tie me up was a challenge.

These hostages vowed to stick together but this was ridiculous ;)

This is what happens when you knock on a door to ask for directions. Use Google Maps next time fella!

KYMS: We're a small community brought together by the internet. Are there any other bondage guys that you really admire or like?

GF: Besides you, of course, there are a lot of guys that I admire and like.  I don't want to list them all because I'm afraid I would leave someone out.  A lot of the guys I like the most, even ones that I have never met, are the ones who have the same obsession with gags like I do.  I also like guys who don't take themselves, or bondage too seriously.  By that I mean that when we're playing, we're serious about it, but afterward, we can relate to each other like human beings.

'Take a nap and save your strength. You're gonna need it for round two!'

KYMS: Yes that's very important to me as well. What are you like away from the bondage world? What do you like to do? How would you describe yourself?

GF: I'm a big nerd.  I enjoy reading, writing, composing music, watching public television, playing board games.  I'm very laid-back and easygoing also, not the strict, controlling guy I am when I have a guy tightly bound and gagged.  I'm not good at describing myself, but someone once described me as "the boy next door with a hint of evil" which I thought was pretty apt.

All subs need an authoritative hand once in a while.

KYMS: Once again thanks for taking the time to answer my questions. This was a lot of fun!

GF: Yes it was!  I find it interesting to talk about the subject of bondage on an intellectual level.  Of course, talking about it always makes me want to do it too!

Rock-a-by hostage on the tree top...

You can contact Matt on most sites under the name gagfanatic. Go and show him some love as he's one of my favourite bondage guys :)

Meet Dave

On Sunday I had the pleasure of meeting a wonderful new friend that I've been chatting to via recon for the past few months. I have to be quite honest; I don't meet a lot of people. I have touched on the reasons why in previous blog entries. However I had started to build a connection with Dave and found that we have a lot of things in common. Most importantly a mutual love of BONDAGE and GAGS :)

In addition to some great, bondage fun we had a very long, deep chat and really got to know each other a lot better. We even had some comedy moments trying to find the car again after we went to the town centre for dinner. I also got to eat Mexican food for the first time since my trip to Los Angeles in 2012. Thanks for that Dave :).

Here's some pictures of our day together:

Make yourself comfortable because you're going to be here a very long time.

He regretted breaking in now!

Gag overkill because I could :D

There was no getting loose from this. In fact it was pretty difficult to untie him afterwards!

Finally got rid of those pesky clothes

Say cheese...oh wait hehe

That realisation that there's no way out of this!

Try as he might there was just no reaching those knots.

Mmmppphhh!

Night night!

A really wonderful day and I hope there will be many more in the future with this loveable bondage bear!

Gagbear - Taking Care of Some Business (Video)

Here's one of my favourite videos featuring the burly Jim 'Gagbear' Growwwl. This video has so many of my favourite things: Gagbear, handgagging, nipple clamps, riding crops, hot dialog and knock out gas. What's not to love? :)

Meet Kurt

My friend Kurt was kind enough to let me feature him on my blog. I've been a fan of his for a long time but unfortunately have not had the opportunity to meet him yet. Some of these photos are a main stay in my wank bank. I just love the classic bondage style. Especially the layered, tight, white hanky gags (my favourite!) It's like a cartoon come to life. A handsome man in some very handsome bondage scenarios. Enjoy!

Gagged ecstasy

This photo set never fails to give me a boner

I love the attention to detail with the arms

Is this a bad time? You seem a bit tied up at the minute hehehe

'Open wide boy...'

Decisions, decisions...

'You're making too much noise'

'This ought to keep you quiet hehehehe'

'You need to learn to respect your captor!'

'Mmmmppphhh Mmmmmmmmppphhhhhh!!!!'

Double the pleasure!

NO escape!

If you're a recon member and you want to contact Kurt then check out his profile here

Meet Derek

My good friend Derek was kind enough to let me feature him on my blog. I've known Derek for nearly 7 years now and there is no-one in the BDSM community I am as close with as him. We've spent the majority of those 7 years exchanging pictures, hot scenarios as well as chatting about personal issues and other fun interests.

When I think of making personal connections I always long for a connection like I have made with Derek. Derek is a very special guy. He really took the time to get to know me rather than trying to badger me into meeting him after 3 messages like a lot of guys try to do. That meant that when we finally met up it felt incredibly special because it felt like we had known each other our entire lives. The first time I tied him up it was a completely comfortable experience for both of us because we had already established that trust and respect that it takes years to establish.

Before I started this blog Derek was always the one I would share material with and one of the few people who truly understood me and knew how to make me feel happy and reassured at all turns. Some times I get caught up in the moral dilemmas of BDSM related issues but Derek is always there to talk it through with me.

I have always felt that we were two souls connected and destined to come into each other's lives. The fact we share the same birthday is further proof of that! Derek was probably the first person to message me when I joined recon all those years ago and in many ways I fell in love with his little, gagged, furry face then and there. I am so grateful that he came into my life and we have shared many great BDSM and none BDSM related moments together. One thing I'll always be grateful to Derek for is his patience. Without him I don't know if I would have the confidence to meet people let alone run this blog! God bless you Derek.

Now for the sexy stuff. Enjoy :)

The first time I met Derek. Probably wondering what he had got himself into!

Derek being a playful hostage

If you want out then just say so...oh wait hehe :D

Pig heaven!

Poor Derek gets kidnapped more often than April O'Neil from Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles!

Under arrest for being a very bad boy :)

Gotcha! You're not going any where Derek!

Bring out the gimp!

Of course I'm not the only one who enjoys kidnapping Derek :)

'How does this keep happening to me?'

Nipple clamps at the ready!

It's illegal to be this hot. So Derek got sent to the sex jail.

WOOF!

Cheers buddy. You're the best friend a guy could have!