Picture of the Week #34 - 03/05/2015

This week has been nostalgia heavy for some reason. Naturally I was looking through my archive of hot bondage pics when I came across this and remembered why I love UniformSubGuy so much. I can't believe I still haven't met him, which is crazy given how long I have known him. Anyway I don't think there is an image of him that doesn't turn me on but I particularly love this one because of the look in his eyes. Pure hostage joy.

Picture of the Week #32 - 19/04/2015

'Don't move a muscle!'

The eyes have it. The picture of the week is one of my all time favourite GOM pics. It's a fairly iconic picture that I've seen shared by countless people over the years. It has all the elements you could want. Masked kidnapper, authoritative stare and a big gloved hand CLAMPED over the mouth of his victim who seems resigned to his sexy fate. I kinda wish there was a video to accompany this picture because I'd love to see what happened next.

Picture of the Week #30 - 05/04/2015

This picture makes me smile. This is how bondage (and GOM in particular) is supposed to make people feel. Happy, safe and protected (from what I don't know, but it's a great feeling so embrace it!)

Picture of the Week #29 - 29/03/2015

I found this image on tumblr with the caption 'Order in the court'. Other than adding a (law and) in front of it I can't come up with a sexier or more fitting caption to match this sexy picture.

Big Eddie and UniformSubGuy

Two of my favourite guys (and contributors to the blog) recently hooked up and had what looks like a great session. Eddie was kind of enough to share some of the photos with me for the blog. I think their eyes do all the talking that their mouths can't! :)

Hero Cops 3 (Handgag Music Video)

Well I never imagined that there would be a third instalment of the Hero Cops video series but life seems to be the gift that keeps on giving. With a little help from a few friends I bring you even more cops from around the world exercising protesters' rights to remain silent for them.

In part three we take a divergence from the sexy Azerbaijani cops that featured heavily in the first two videos and focus on Turkish Cops/Security with some cameos by Russian, Indian, Spanish, Brazilian and even American cops flexing those manly, handgagging muscles.

'Sir you have the obligation to remain silent'

A special thanks to Derek for the voice over at the beginning. I think we will have to get you a cop uniform mister! Also see if you can spot my cameo in this video...well ok it's not really me, just a doppelgänger! :)

In case you missed the first two instalments you can watch them below:

Hero Cops 1:

Hero Cops 2:

Disclaimer: All material in this post should be viewed as sexual/romantic fantasy and should not be viewed as support or endorsement for any political party or regime that may feature in this video.

Picture of the Week #7 - 24/10/2014

Suddenly that dare didn't seem so funny

This week's picture of the week is one of my favourite pictures of all time. I love the cops out-numbering the perp, ensuring that he has no escape and no way out. All the important areas of the body are being worked at the same time. Certainly that streaker will regret his public nudity once these cops have taught him a valuable lesson.

Meet Uniformsubguy

My friend Chris from recon was kind of enough to send me some pictures of himself for my blog. I've never played with him before but he's certainly high on my list. I always love his seemingly endless supply of gear. He has a uniform to fit just about every fantasy. I'd love to get him roped up in that police uniform. WOOF!

Thank you Chris. Your pictures always do the business for me ;) Here's a selection of some of my favourites:

Bad things are about to happen.

I always say 'the more rope the better!'

This pig investigated the wrong guy

Love that you can see the different gag layers here.

Double trouble!

There's no getting out of that one!

'Talking is a privilege for prisoners, not a right!'

Hot copper gone a cropper

If you want to contact Chris then you can find him on recon here.

BDSM Wrestling

Time for another compilation. This time some of my favourite BDSM moments that have occurred in wrestling. Interestingly the majority of the clips come from the late 80s and early 90s but the bound and gagged scenes are from recent years. Trying to target a certain demographic perhaps? ;)

Now that's a big hand!

The Power of the Hand

My friend Big Eddie was kind enough to write a very interesting piece regarding the power of handgagging for me to share with you guys. As you probably know already I'm a big handgag fan so this piece got me quite excited. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did!

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Like many of us I was into bondage from an early age. I was lucky to be born of the time when kids could play cops and robbers or cowboys and indians, and not have a parent go off in a fit if someone got roped to a tree.

As I grew into an adult I still liked bondage, in a subconscious way, getting turned on by cop shows of the time that featured far more gagging and binding than would be allowed today. It wasn't until one simple act done to me in my early twenties that I discovered what you might call the "power of the hand".

I had begun a relationship with an older guy who I knew from work. One day he'd told me he was going to start driving to work and asked whether I would like a lift with him. I accepted and the lifts became our times to be together to snuggle and more. Often we'd pull into some quiet country lane, off the main road, to do this.

One day we had stopped as per usual, when he did something totally unexpected from my point of view. He reached over from the driver's seat and clamped his hand firmly over my mouth. My first reaction was to try and speak which obviously was pointless since all that came out of me was a muffled noise. So then i tried to pull his hand away.

It was then he spoke to me with an intensity and authority I had never experienced before and basically told me to keep still, not to try and talk, and do as I was told. Now i was twice his size and half his age. In reality I could have easily overpowered him, but something inside me stopped that reaction. Something deep inside me wanted this, and found it both erotic and thrilling.

So I didn't resist, in fact I found my limbs had turned to jelly.  I just sat there quietly as he removed his hand.  He sat back and took his tie off.

"Put your wrists together in front of you", were his next words, and without thinking I obeyed. Quickly the tie was wrapped around them and secured.

"Do you have a hanky on you lad?" was his next question and I nodded.

"Where lad?"

"Left trouser pocket." I managed to stammer back to him. and he reached over and took it from my pocket.

He immediately placed his hand holding the hanky back over my mouth and began pushing the cloth into my unresisting mouth.

"Next time i ask you a question, i want an immediate answer, with the proper respect lad. You will address me a sir from now on. Understand?" he emphasised the last word as the hanky fully filled my mouth. He then took from his own trouser pocket what I thought was another hanky, but as he tied it over my mouth in a classic cinch gag I realised it was bigger than normal. It was my first encounter with a bandanna.

What happened subsequently is private but it became my introduction to both bondage and dominance by another man. Such incidents began to happen more often, in fact I would sit there and and secretly wish that each trip would contain bondage, control and most of all his hand over my mouth.

Since then my bondage times have been many and interesting. I have had many different bondage experiences, but still I desire more than anything that any bondage session starts with the simple act of a hand clamped tight over my mouth followed by calmly whispered words of control. Along the way i discovered if that hand was gloved in leather or rubber my reaction was even more powerful. Later i found having my nose as well as mouth covered increased the thrill further.

The whole process has become a major fetish for me to the point where simply watching a bondage partner put on a pair of gloves starts moving me down the slippery slope to total submission. As soon as I see those gloved hands, deep down i want them clamped hard over my mouth and nose, stifling my voice, and taking from me all ability to resist. That is the "Power of the Hand".

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If you want to contact Big Eddie then you can find him on recon here.

Picture of the Week #2 - 19/09/2014

I chose this picture because I love the look of love and contentment on both guys' faces. This definitely captures the intimacy of hand (and glove) gagging perfectly. Who wouldn't want a relationship like this?

I don't know where this picture came from originally but if you know, then please let me know in the comments below.

Hero Cops 2 (Handgag music video)

Recently I discovered more wonderful clips of my favourite police force in the entire world. I really had no idea there were so many out there but I'm glad there is. Since the first video was so popular and received such lovely feedback I decided to make a second one. Boy I tell you these cops are marriage material for sure!

I really enjoy making bondage music videos and would like to make more in the future. Maybe if you have clips that you'd want put together in a video you can send them to me and I'll give it a go.

Bliss!

Safe and protected!

In case you missed it here is the first instalment:

*Please note that all material in this post should be viewed as sexual/romantic fantasy and not as support for any political party or regime.

Q & A with Matt (Gagfanatic)

Recently I got the opportunity to do a question and answer session with one of my favourite bondage guys: Matt (aka Gagfanatic on the internet). I've never really seen a bondage interview before but I thought this would be a fun thing to do and I was definitely not disappointed. Thanks Matt! :)

Oh hey there :)

KYMS: Hey handsome, how's things? Thank you for taking the time to answer some questions for my blog.

GF: Thank you for asking me.  I enjoy talking about my favourite hobby.  Ironically, you can't shut me up when I'm talking about gags.

'Yep on closer inspection you are definitely going nowhere!'

KYMS: Me either! So tell me how you first got into bondage? Can you remember the exact moment and how did it make you feel?

GF: I remember watching an old gangster movie on television when I was quite young and getting excited during a scene where a guy was tied up and gagged.  I wish I could find that movie.  I also remember always wanting to play cops and robbers or cowboys and Indians and tying my playmates up with my jump rope.

Young cowboy in the wrong place at the wrong time.

KYMS: I'd like to know what movie that was too! A lot of bondage lovers keep a scrap book or similar when they're growing up. Did you ever do this?

GF: I didn't have a scrapbook, but I did have my Hardy Boys books.  When we got a VCR I made a video scrapbook of bondage scenes from TV shows.

This swimmer would have been better off being caught by sharks :)

KYMS: Tell us about your first bondage experience. How was it set up?

GF: My first "real" bondage experience was with my first boyfriend in college.  We both had roommates, so we rented a hotel room for our first time having sex.  I had never mentioned the fact that I was into bondage before, but after we did the vanilla stuff I turned to him in bed and said, "Hey, can I tie you up?" He said yes, I tore up one of the bedsheets, and tied him spread-eagle to the bed.  I loved it, he loved it, but the hotel people probably didn't love the destroyed bed sheet.

My kinda hostage!

KYMS: I bet haha! You have been described as a 'bondage rockstar' in some corners due to your IML exploits. Do you agree with that description and how does it make you feel? How many guys have you tied up at IML if you were to guess?

GF: I feel very flattered by that description of course, especially since I know who originated the term, and he's a bona fide bondage rockstar.  Flattered as I am, I don't think of myself as a rock star because I don't love the limelight.  I've met guys before who are "famous" in the bondage community, and a lot of them had attitudes, and acted surprised/insulted if I didn't know who they were.

The predator has caught his prey.

Due to the fact that I'm a huge nerd, I don't have to guess how many guys I tied up at IML, I kept a list.  At the last IML I attended I tied up 16 guys in 31 sessions.  I only got about 12 hours of sleep the entire four-day weekend.

3 down...28 to go?

KYMS: Wow that's a lot! I'm jealous! Speaking of IML; tell us about these bondage parties that happen. How do you set these up?

GF: I only attended one actual party, at my first IML.  I was invited by a guy who wanted me to tie him and a friend of his at the party, and I ended up tying up a couple of other guys while I was there.  The most I've ever had in my room at one time is four guys.  It's more like a bondage dinner party, a small intimate gathering.  I think four guys is about all I can handle on my own.  I learned that the best way to set things up is to go with the flow, and not to expect things to go as planned.  Sometimes setting up meetings with guys falls through, not just at IML, but, in many cases, an even hotter bondage hookup happens instead.

Twinsies!

KYMS: One of the reasons I've always liked you is that you're a gag lover like me. What do you think is the perfect way to gag a guy?

GF: I really can't answer that.  It's like asking what's my favorite type of gag.  There are so many, I can't choose one.  I like every type of gag there is, and depending on what effect I want, I use different kinds.  My default gag is a layered gag of seven to eight bandannas, starting with a cleave-gag and progressively getting thicker until I finish off with an OTM gag or an OTN gag if the guy can handle it.  That's another consideration, what the sub can handle.  Some guys can take a few bandannas, some guys can take sweat socks in the mouth, 20 bandannas, half a roll of duct tape, and a yard-long piece of cloth to finish everything off.

Now that's a man's gag!

KYMS: Speaking of roles: You're a bondage top. A lot of guys seem to be subs or switches. At what point did you realise you liked to be the guy doing the tying up as opposed to the guy being tied up?

GF: Before I started tying guys up, I would always identify with the captor when I would read a story or watch something that had bondage.  As I mentioned before, the first real bondage I did was with my first boyfriend, and since I was the one who suggested it, it just seemed natural that I should be the one who did the tying.  That being said, I'm not a total bondage top.  There are times when I like to be tied and gagged, but since as you said a lot of guys are subs or switches (and most switches I've met are 99% sub) it made it difficult to find someone to tie me up.  Finding a guy who liked to tie guys up, who knew what he was doing, and who I could trust to tie me up was a challenge.

These hostages vowed to stick together but this was ridiculous ;)

This is what happens when you knock on a door to ask for directions. Use Google Maps next time fella!

KYMS: We're a small community brought together by the internet. Are there any other bondage guys that you really admire or like?

GF: Besides you, of course, there are a lot of guys that I admire and like.  I don't want to list them all because I'm afraid I would leave someone out.  A lot of the guys I like the most, even ones that I have never met, are the ones who have the same obsession with gags like I do.  I also like guys who don't take themselves, or bondage too seriously.  By that I mean that when we're playing, we're serious about it, but afterward, we can relate to each other like human beings.

'Take a nap and save your strength. You're gonna need it for round two!'

KYMS: Yes that's very important to me as well. What are you like away from the bondage world? What do you like to do? How would you describe yourself?

GF: I'm a big nerd.  I enjoy reading, writing, composing music, watching public television, playing board games.  I'm very laid-back and easygoing also, not the strict, controlling guy I am when I have a guy tightly bound and gagged.  I'm not good at describing myself, but someone once described me as "the boy next door with a hint of evil" which I thought was pretty apt.

All subs need an authoritative hand once in a while.

KYMS: Once again thanks for taking the time to answer my questions. This was a lot of fun!

GF: Yes it was!  I find it interesting to talk about the subject of bondage on an intellectual level.  Of course, talking about it always makes me want to do it too!

Rock-a-by hostage on the tree top...

You can contact Matt on most sites under the name gagfanatic. Go and show him some love as he's one of my favourite bondage guys :)

Meet Derek

My good friend Derek was kind enough to let me feature him on my blog. I've known Derek for nearly 7 years now and there is no-one in the BDSM community I am as close with as him. We've spent the majority of those 7 years exchanging pictures, hot scenarios as well as chatting about personal issues and other fun interests.

When I think of making personal connections I always long for a connection like I have made with Derek. Derek is a very special guy. He really took the time to get to know me rather than trying to badger me into meeting him after 3 messages like a lot of guys try to do. That meant that when we finally met up it felt incredibly special because it felt like we had known each other our entire lives. The first time I tied him up it was a completely comfortable experience for both of us because we had already established that trust and respect that it takes years to establish.

Before I started this blog Derek was always the one I would share material with and one of the few people who truly understood me and knew how to make me feel happy and reassured at all turns. Some times I get caught up in the moral dilemmas of BDSM related issues but Derek is always there to talk it through with me.

I have always felt that we were two souls connected and destined to come into each other's lives. The fact we share the same birthday is further proof of that! Derek was probably the first person to message me when I joined recon all those years ago and in many ways I fell in love with his little, gagged, furry face then and there. I am so grateful that he came into my life and we have shared many great BDSM and none BDSM related moments together. One thing I'll always be grateful to Derek for is his patience. Without him I don't know if I would have the confidence to meet people let alone run this blog! God bless you Derek.

Now for the sexy stuff. Enjoy :)

The first time I met Derek. Probably wondering what he had got himself into!

Derek being a playful hostage

If you want out then just say so...oh wait hehe :D

Pig heaven!

Poor Derek gets kidnapped more often than April O'Neil from Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles!

Under arrest for being a very bad boy :)

Gotcha! You're not going any where Derek!

Bring out the gimp!

Of course I'm not the only one who enjoys kidnapping Derek :)

'How does this keep happening to me?'

Nipple clamps at the ready!

It's illegal to be this hot. So Derek got sent to the sex jail.

WOOF!

Cheers buddy. You're the best friend a guy could have!